He/she wants to try forgiveness

This comment came in response to the post about the older brother sexually abusing his younger sibling. I love how our stories truly, truly help each other heal.

I too have an older brother and although he never molested me he held our family captive and my parents as well by his use of money.

Well now my parents are dead and I thought that would be the end of it. But of course it isn't. Whether I see him or not (not) I find myself so ticked off whenever I think of him that I can't function and it makes me bitter and cold inside. I want you to know that reading your story makes me want to lay it all down.

I don't know how when his damage is so profound but you make me want to try. For this, I thank you.