From Anonymous:
I woke up in the middle of the night one night and caught my husband dressed up as a woman...it scared the crap out of me...
He is a cross dresser and yet such a masculine man...I was devastated...after being a victim of sexual abuse as a child and growing through that...this is something I don't know how to deal with. He says he stopped but I know better...even if there is no evidence at home...
love him a lot, but don't trust as usual...I guess I am no better because I catch me looking at stuff I shouldn't be looking at in lust. Sexual abuse screws with our minds and hearts...:O(
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4 comments:
I am married to a christian man who has been cheerless and has told me over and over he isn't interested in hearing my hopes, dreams, or how my day is. Recently I found out he has put us into incredible debt. As a direct result, we have to sell our house to pay these bills. I was within a few years of retirement and now I have to work many more years. Even though I am a Christian I decided to leave my husband and begin again on my own and grab some happiness before I die. Many understand..others do not. My husband asks how I can call myself a christian and file for divorce. Never mind what he has put us through. What he says has hurt my prayer life and damaged my relationship with God. BUT I am determined to recover myself financially, spiritually and emotionally. I am a Christian. And I am getting a divorce.
I understand.
It's a shame we Christians judge the choices of others, like divorce, without knowing the whole story. I know, I've been one to judge. It's sad that you feel you have to explain your choice to others. If you wanted to gossip...there would be ready ears!
I do think some individuals divorce just because they are to lazy to work on their issues. . . but I know some people have needed to make that choice for their physical and mental well being.
In the case of your husband, it's easier to point the finger at you than to take responsibility for his actions as the provider of his home. Not only does it sound as if your husband already left the marriage emotionally, he also was deceptive. Both issues to me are trust issues.
Divorce is never an easy decision to make. My heart goes out to those who are thinking of making that choice.
May God fill you with all wisdom, strength, and peace.
What does that comment have to do with cross dressing?? Ok cross dressing is a lifestyle choiced and your husband having to hide it is going to make things bad. If you can't except it and support him for who he is do him a favor and leave so he can find someone who can. My boyfriend had only known me for a week when he decided to tell me, he was scared to death that he would lose me but he said he didnt want to hide anything form me. I am 100% supportive, his mother is not she found out she found his clothes and she threw them all away. His therapist has said that without me there to help him he probably wouldnt have made it through such a hard time with his mother not being accepting. I am here for him and you need to be there for your husband.
love him a lot, but don't trust as usual...I guess I am no better because I catch me looking at stuff I shouldn't be looking at in lust. Sexual abuse screws with our minds and hearts.
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