<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post140031637089428661..comments</id><updated>2011-01-08T22:37:47.467-06:00</updated><category term='As We Forgive series'/><category term='Gambling'/><category term='affection issue'/><category term='spousal abuse'/><category term='sever ties with abusive family'/><category term='suppressed memory'/><category term='sibling rivalry'/><category term='mother in law'/><category term='emotional abuse'/><category term='father daughter issues'/><category term='Angry parent'/><category term='bigamy'/><category term='abusive parent'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='abortion'/><category term='Loneliness'/><category term='family business issues'/><category term='forgiveness'/><category term='stepparenting issues'/><category term='Trading Fathers by Karen Rabbitt'/><category term='thank you'/><category term='physical abuse'/><category term='Parents'/><category term='anti-depressants'/><category term='dysfunctional extended family'/><category term='pornography'/><category term='homosexuality'/><category term='mother daughter relationship'/><category term='underage dating'/><category term='Four Week Series on Incest'/><category term='oprah&apos;s family secret'/><category term='drug abuse'/><category term='secret woman'/><category term='How to Share Your Secrets'/><category term='Listening'/><category term='unknown children'/><category term='apologizing'/><category term='adult parents'/><category term='Secret birth'/><category term='Thin Places'/><category term='abandonment'/><category term='Affair'/><category term='secrets'/><category term='domestic violence'/><category term='secret adoption'/><category term='neglect'/><category term='cross dressing'/><category term='rape'/><category term='Shame'/><category term='incest'/><category term='abuse'/><category term='Thin Places Testimony'/><category term='family secrets'/><category term='dating issues'/><category term='Divorce'/><category term='Mental health'/><category term='infidelity'/><category term='Drugs'/><category term='Unwanted touch'/><category term='child abuse'/><category term='orphanhood'/><category term='Sexual abuse'/><category term='parents secrets'/><category term='Freedom Fridays'/><category term='adultery'/><category term='homelessness'/><category term='Healing'/><category term='Embezzling'/><category term='prostitution'/><category term='Cutting Ties with your family of origin'/><category term='Pioneer Parenting (Rasing Kids differently than you were raised)'/><category term='not her parent'/><category term='alcoholism'/><category term='financial woes'/><title type='text'>Comments on My Family Secrets: Husband put them into debt</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/feeds/140031637089428661/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html'/><author><name>Mary DeMuth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06102710597183711588</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DYxfA7uZWBw/SzOcu39vJ5I/AAAAAAAACG0/HRAbT78D4uo/S220/marysmallest.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-5322086890423342913</id><published>2011-01-08T22:37:47.467-06:00</published><updated>2011-01-08T22:37:47.467-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Never mind what he has put us through. What he say...</title><content type='html'>Never mind what he has put us through. What he says has hurt my prayer life and damaged my relationship with God.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5322086890423342913'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5322086890423342913'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html?showComment=1294547867467#c5322086890423342913' title=''/><author><name>Picking up Women</name><uri>http://www.lawofdating.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1220422064'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-5951382993660269971</id><published>2010-09-27T20:20:12.050-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-27T20:20:12.050-05:00</updated><title type='text'>As a direct result, we have to sell our house to p...</title><content type='html'>As a direct result, we have to sell our house to pay these bills. I was within a few years of retirement and now I have to work many more years.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5951382993660269971'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5951382993660269971'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html?showComment=1285636812050#c5951382993660269971' title=''/><author><name>James Morgan - Puritan Financial Advisor</name><uri>http://www.puritanfinancialcommunity.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-928464951'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-2507500314496078484</id><published>2009-12-04T00:17:33.228-06:00</published><updated>2009-12-04T00:17:33.228-06:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/2507500314496078484'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/2507500314496078484'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.contentRemoved' value='true'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1431138247'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-6801470605987160767</id><published>2009-11-29T19:06:17.427-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-29T19:06:17.427-06:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/6801470605987160767'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/6801470605987160767'/><author><name>Michael</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12353911630569406613</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.contentRemoved' value='true'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1161198769'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-865840032467372932</id><published>2009-11-18T19:16:52.670-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-18T19:16:52.670-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Anonymous,

Thanks for your apology. I do complete...</title><content type='html'>Anonymous,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for your apology. I do completely agree and endorse God&amp;#39;s healing. And I do appreciate your perspective. It&amp;#39;s just so hard to convey tone on the internet. I may have misread your tone, so please forgive me, but the post felt a bit harsh. I want to foster a safe community here where folks feel okay about sharing their secrets. It&amp;#39;s not that you wrote something forbidden; it&amp;#39;s just that it came across in a hard manner, though I&amp;#39;m sure that&amp;#39;s not your intent.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/865840032467372932'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/865840032467372932'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html?showComment=1258593412670#c865840032467372932' title=''/><author><name>Mary DeMuth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06102710597183711588</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DYxfA7uZWBw/SgH4X0k9t3I/AAAAAAAAByE/JgpNRy7WgcA/S220/Mary+Demuth+cropped+lisbon+smaller.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-28953993'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-4255884941002529154</id><published>2009-11-18T18:03:44.959-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-18T18:03:44.959-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Mary, please accept my apology for being angry tha...</title><content type='html'>Mary, please accept my apology for being angry that you removed my comment. I do believe that you have faith in God&amp;#39;s healing powers. This is your blog and you can certainly manage it in the way you see fit. May God bless your ministry.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/4255884941002529154'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/4255884941002529154'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html?showComment=1258589024959#c4255884941002529154' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-310422822'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-9212562892559652217</id><published>2009-11-18T15:32:49.371-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-18T15:32:49.371-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Apparently finding healing through God and His mig...</title><content type='html'>Apparently finding healing through God and His mighty miracles for broken marriages is not Mary DeMuth&amp;#39;s idea of &amp;quot;good advice&amp;quot; for people on the verge of divorce or anyone else who reads this blog since she deleted my comment regarding this post, written with great compassion for your pain because I&amp;#39;ve felt that same pain. Buy the book &amp;quot;Love and Respect&amp;quot;, Mary. You&amp;#39;ll read about marriage after marriage, all on the brink of divorce--some even after divorce papers were signed--that show that God CAN and WILL heal marriages. This woman&amp;#39;s marriage, torn by neglect and financial mess, CAN be saved. It&amp;#39;s too bad you don&amp;#39;t believe that. If the purpose of your blog is simply to post the problem and not the solution, you should make that clear.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/9212562892559652217'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/9212562892559652217'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html?showComment=1258579969371#c9212562892559652217' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-310422822'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-5248628427097704295</id><published>2009-11-18T08:24:57.369-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-18T08:24:57.369-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Your story hits very close to my heart.  My in-law...</title><content type='html'>Your story hits very close to my heart.  My in-laws are dealing with this exact issue.  He is verbally abusive and has made multiple purchases without the knowledge or consent of my mother-in-law, who is the only one still working.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She has never been a perfect Christian,wife, or mother, nor claims to ever have been so. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Outsiders looking in say &amp;quot;she deserves it.&amp;quot;  I cant&amp;#39;t imagine saying that about anyone in her situation. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; My heart aches for her, and for you.  I am so sorry you are going through this.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5248628427097704295'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5248628427097704295'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html?showComment=1258554297369#c5248628427097704295' title=''/><author><name>Michelle Wegner</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01365577640588763198</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-110918470'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-5384772265652100189</id><published>2009-11-17T12:59:22.881-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T12:59:22.881-06:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5384772265652100189'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/140031637089428661/comments/default/5384772265652100189'/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.myfamilysecrets.org/2009/11/husband-put-them-into-debt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6328793783316708775.post-140031637089428661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6328793783316708775/posts/default/140031637089428661' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.contentRemoved' value='true'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-338855244'/></entry></feed>
